Using Magick to Improve Relationships

 

This is a picture I colored with markers. I think it sort of looks like an old, scrappy scarf. I put this towards the back of my Life Control Book, and yes, I totally have a marriage section. That's where I keep my list of date night ideas because when we finally get to go out I have no idea what we could do. 

This page is how I sent healing energy yesterday. I focused on the picture for a while, then remembered happy times with Hubby. All you need is something to trigger good feelings like a keepsake, photo, jewelry, or clothing. Bonus if it smells like your significant other. 

Some other spells to try:

1. Put their name in sugar. The spell as I learned it requires writing their name on paper, then putting the paper in the sugar jar. I think that is a little too obvious, so I draw initials directly into the sugar. For a marriage, the sweetness/love affects the entire house. Sometimes when I bake, I write my husband's full name into the sugar, then say he must treat me with kindness. Charm flour to make someone stick to you, butter to make the relationship flow smoothly, milk to nurture, and spice to add passion. 

2. Underwear spells. There's a lot of these, but most are manipulative, like hiding underwear under the mattress to ensure he sleeps in your bed. Burying underwear near the front door ensures that he stays home. Roll your underwear with his to encourage sex. 

3. Talk to his photograph. This is especially helpful if you are unsure of discussing a difficult subject. If you can tell the picture what is wrong, you can broach the subject with the contary human.

4. Study his horoscope. Do you see a hard aspect hitting his career? What could you do to relieve stress?

5. Are you being kind? Act the way you want to be treated. Like attracts like. 

6. Remember girls scribbling initials on their folders in junior high? It works. Trying joining both yours and his initials together like a bindrune or sigil. 

7. If you want him to move in, make a house key charm and put the charm under your pillow. 

8. Bless his car so he is safe while driving. 

This should be enough to get you started. Blessed be.